Getting Unstuck

Ever get stuck and in need of a solution? I sure have and most of the people I work with, run into the same issue. Most of the time we want one thing to do that will fix whatever is going on. This approach becomes worse than the situation we are facing. I’ll explain. When we’re stuck, pressure builds. As this pressure keeps stacking within, the need to find that one magic bullet to fix our issue becomes even greater. As we feel even more pressure we become less resourceful and get even more desperate to find that one thing


Problems vs Puzzles

I don’t have any problems, I have puzzles” – Quincy Jones That is one great reframe. Problems presuppose stuckness. Puzzles presuppose what? Fun? Moving parts? Just a matter of time? Sounds like looking at the situation as a puzzle triggers us to be more resourceful. When we talk in terms of problems, the problem tends to convince ourselves that we are stuck and not resourceful. When I work with others, I never look at their problems as something solid that is cemented in place. I do see them as a puzzle, then start to compartmentalize the parts that make up


Let’s Talk Money

I grew up in a time to where being a millionaire was something to work towards. Go make it, then buy a lifestyle. At my age, I suggest there are other reasons to get good at earning money when you’re young. The big reason is, there will be people around you that you love, and they will be getting old and sick. Some of these people are going to need support financially. There is nothing more painful then, having a problem that money can fix but you can’t because you don’t have enough to spare. Money is good. Getting it


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